Flirting is an art which improves with practice. And I’m sure that everyone must have tried their hand on it sometime or the other. Most individuals don’t realize that they are flirting until it is all said and done. Many people flirt but they aren’t many who are good at it. Can you do it nicely or would like to know some inner secrets to fare better? Many times flirting has also been defined as an act to arouse sexual interest in the other person. However, if you look deep, it is nothing but a very natural behavior to intimate the person you like.
The very first basic which aids flirting is the presentation. Body language always speaks louder than words so it’s very vital to present oneself impressively. So no matter whom you flirt with it, and wherever you do it, give attention to your body language. Adverted eyes and crossed arms never work because they signal that you are not interested. Body language works amazingly, so use it as your hidden tool. Plenty of signals can be sent in a flirting manner from the way you smile, the way you move, the way you sit and how you walk and so on.
Another vital thing for successful flirting is what you say and how you speak. This is the main thing which affects the whole flirtation process. When you talk, make sure it’s informal and try and play with it. Keep the conversation light and don’t focus on “all about me” attitude. Moreover, if you are in a crowded area, never speak loud instead try speaking in the ear. And please maintain lots of eye contact, which can be coupled with touching shoulder or hands. Let the other person speak and revert back so that you can know his feelings.
Besides some quick tips which can help you:
• Don’t use sexual orientated and corny lines, which are fully sugar coated. For instance – did it hurt when you fell down from the heaven?
• Conversations are always successful when both the parties have their space. Give the other person space to speak and give his opinions.
• Flirt moderately and interestingly so that you enjoy it.
