Even if half the world believes that it happens the other way round that men try to find ways of impressing women, one cannot deny the fact that even women sometimes fuss about making the right impression. So what should a woman do to impress a man? The first step is very simple, and something that comes naturally to women- looking good. If you catch his eye in a crowd and he appreciates what you are wearing and how you look, smile and be appreciative. Just a simple thankful gesture will keep him with you for the time being. At the same time, don’t go overboard with dressing yourself up. Men definitely like high heels, but you won’t be any fun if you are not comfortable wearing them. Similarly, having supermodel looks is also not okay, and you must like what you wear and how you look yourself. You must feel comfortable what you are wearing. Men understand that not all women have to look like movie stars, so they will appreciate it if you come across as a genuine person.
Be confident and try not to be nervous. If you appear to be sure of yourself, men will like you more. Women who are independent, assertive and smart catch a man’s eye quicker, because then you become a sociable individual instead of someone they have to take care of, which feels like a liability to them. When they realize they don’t have to take care of you, they will be more willing to provide you company and interact. When someone comes to talk to you, then instead of glancing nervously and making small talk, try to be relaxed and easy going. You might not know it, but most of the times both parties are nervous, and your relaxed attitude will ensure that people around you also feel comfortable in chatting with you.
Try to make engaging conversation and keep people interested. If someone sees a woman talking with a bunch of men, he will automatically be interested in knowing what the discussion is about and who the woman is. When you talk, ask a man about his interests, hobbies, work etc. Women like good listeners, but being one for even a little time goes a long way in impressing him as someone who is interested about him. Asking questions and commenting occasionally will make him realize that you are attentive. If you can participate in a discussion with him about his hobby or interest, say baseball or cricket, you have already accomplished your mission.
Finally, time to take care of little bits. Tell a man if he looks good, because they don’t get as many compliments as women do. Do not drink too much if there is drinking allowed where you meet, because lowered inhibitions might make you say things you would wish you hadn’t said. Lastly, don’t act dumb in order to make the man talk to you. If that is what it takes him to ask questions about you, is he really the kind of guy you want to impress? Like a two-way street, the effort to impress should not be one sided.
